Too much of a good thing?

I definitely have doubts about my husband and I getting along in the middle of nowhere. The plan is for him to not work nearly as much as he does here. Obviously, meaning he will be home a lot more. In theory, it sounds wonderful, but in practice...we shall see. I miss him when he is at work now. There are times I could really use his help with the kids. He has been off for the last week, due to moving prep, Legoland, the county fair...ect. Today, will be the 12th day we have been together all day. Lets be real. I'm done. Looking forward to him going to work tomorrow. Funny thing is, I know he is too. He has completely run out of patience with the kids. Maxed! It takes an enormous amount of patience to do 5 kids everyday...all day. He needs to build up his tolerance. We do things very differently and I run this ship. He throws off the balance of things a bit. Its normally just the weekend, when we all kind of slip into daddy mode. This home all the time, homeschooling the kids, lack of have to dos and must haves, is gonna be a whole new ball game. If only he would just pipe down and get in line with the kids. Yeah right? I see a power struggle on the horizon. I'll put it on our list of things to do when we move.